The predominant form of the human molecule is two persons, more or less closely engaged. These are usually paired as active, or dominant, and passive, or submissive, although these roles may be played by persons of any variety of genders. Less common, but still binary forms, are pairs of either both active/dominant or both passive/submissive, again expressed by any combination of genders.
In addition, there is a large percentage of the population which is solitaire. Solitude is not healthy, except for short periods of time, and often leads to extreme expressions eventually diagnosed as madness. Solitude is often, perhaps even usually, a major factor in the etiology of deviant or criminal behavior of all kinds. All children should have strong bonds with their parents at first, and should be encouraged to form strong bonds with their friends as well, of both genders. Clear instruction in interpersonal dynamics would greatly facilitate the forming of social bonds.
Whenever people experience the ill effects of solitude leading to deviations in any direction, which are collectively precursors to madness, they should be provided with assistance in forming a close personal attachment with someone as soon as possible. Even children, especially children, when their life history has subjected them to long periods of solitude leading to any kind of erratic behavior, should be assisted to find a partner, as a primary therapeutic goal.
However, there is also a third variant of the human molecule, which is much less common than binaries or solitaires, and that is triads. Whenever three people make a bond together, the result is far more complex than either binaries or solitaires. There are so many potential combinations of energies, without even considering gender variations. These are usually dynamic forms and are often vehicles of change. On the other hand, it is possible for three persons to form an intentional complex relationship which is intended to be stable rather than transitional. When such a group achieves stability, it can be very powerful. It is not for everyone, but some people are just not comfortable in a one-on-one relationship, which often tends to get polarized on any number of dimensions. For these people, triads are a much better solution than solitaires; for them we offer LoveTriad.org.
Some people may think that we are missing an opportunity, that we could arrange the categories of partners entirely according to their energy fields with no reference to any particular combination of genders which might fill those roles. But if we have elected to retain the gender designations as the more convenient alternative, we invite you to interpret those designations as creatively as you please. The options we suggest are only the beginning. When it comes time to design your own profile, you are encouraged freely to express yourselves and your desires with no creative limit.